Showing posts with label advice. Show all posts
Showing posts with label advice. Show all posts

Thursday, November 24, 2011

In The Hot Seat - Thanksgiving

We are grateful for the people who have supported us in the past and the opportunities that are coming in the future. Have a safe and happy holiday.
By Heather Fairchild - Heather is a multimedia developer with experience in web, film, photography and animation as well as traditional fine arts like painting and sculpting. In addition to writing for Beyond.com, she is co-founder of design and promotion company. Heather’s spare time consists of making puppets, teaching Sunday School, building Legos and doing science experiments with her children.

In The Hot Seat - Thanksgiving

We are grateful for the people who have supported us in the past and the opportunities that are coming in the future. Have a safe and happy holiday.



By Heather Fairchild - Heather is a multimedia developer with experience in web, film, photography and animation as well as traditional fine arts like painting and sculpting. In addition to writing for Beyond.com, she is co-founder of design and promotion company. Heather’s spare time consists of making puppets, teaching Sunday School, building Legos and doing science experiments with her children.

Friday, November 11, 2011

In The Hot Seat - Veteran's Day

To all the members that have served in the armed forces both past and present, we offer this heartfelt salute of appreciation.

Have you hugged a veteran today?

By Heather Fairchild - Heather is a multimedia developer with experience in web, film, photography and animation as well as traditional fine arts like painting and sculpting. In addition to writing for Beyond.com, she is co-founder of design and promotion company. Heather’s spare time consists of making puppets, teaching Sunday School, building Legos and doing science experiments with her children.

In The Hot Seat - Veteran's Day

To all the members that have served in the armed forces both past and present, we offer this heartfelt salute of appreciation.

Have you hugged a veteran today?

By Heather Fairchild - Heather is a multimedia developer with experience in web, film, photography and animation as well as traditional fine arts like painting and sculpting. In addition to writing for Beyond.com, she is co-founder of design and promotion company. Heather’s spare time consists of making puppets, teaching Sunday School, building Legos and doing science experiments with her children.

Monday, October 31, 2011

10 Things I Know For Sure


Taking a cue from Oprah's "20 Things I Know For Sure" campaign.

If you read O magazine or keep up with the Oprah website, you might have seen her recent campaign to have different people share 20 things that they know for sure about life. Even though I am not a devout Oprah fan, unlike some of my friends, I have to admit that sometimes she gets it right.

Personally, I think that we all have insight to share and that great advice doesn't have to come from gurus or self help specialists. Sometimes, the person who has been looking for a job for the better part of a year, the college graduate who is just figuring out how to survive in the adult world or the old woman who has been raised kids and grandkids can have unique insight into life.

I was so impressed by this idea, I'd like to share 10 things and invite everyone to add their own 10 things as well.

Here are 10 things I know for sure:

  • You can't be open to receive what you need if your hands are full - When you spend your time holding onto things that aren't working, you can't be open to hear or take advantage of anything new. Look at everything as an opportunity and keep yourself open to new ideas.
  • Do what you love, the pay check is a bonus - Over the years, I have worked at many different jobs. The truth is that it doesn't matter how much they pay, if you don't love what you do, it's work. Find a way to do what you love because life is too short to spend it doing anything else.
  • When you feel useless, give your time to others - When I feel that I am not effective and incompetent (which happens more often than I'd care to admit) I look for ways to volunteer my time and talents to help others. Just being able to give the little bit that I have can give me back so much in return. It helps me to remember that we are all in this together and to feel a part of something bigger than myself.
  • If you can't make a decision or you aren't sure, you don't have to choose - Sometimes I just can't decide what to do. Instead of forcing myself to make a choice right away, I sit with it for a little while. The right path always seems to show itself.
  • If the voices in your head aren't treating you with compassion, they aren't on your side - This is a hard one. We all have an inner tape that plays and often it's purpose is to beat us up for not living up to its expectations. If your voice isn't treating you with as much compassion as you would give your closest friend then it isn't on your side. Don't listen to it.
  • If you aren't making mistakes, you aren't really trying hard - Mistakes aren't failures, they just mean that you are trying. Think about a child learning to walk. Even though they fall down pretty often, those attempts aren't failures, they are just part of the process of learning something new. If you aren't making mistakes then you aren't growing.
  • Money isn't the measure of success - Unless you believe that our purpose on this planet is to have as much stuff as possible before we die, having money doesn't make your life successful. Think about what your purpose is and then measure your success.
  • Don't do things just because you think you're supposed to, unless they make sense for you - Trust your own judgement. For example, just because teenagers are supposed to go to college doesn't mean that all teens are college material. There is nothing wrong with opting to go to a trade school or take some time to work before deciding on a career path. Do what makes sense for you and your situation.
  • Worry is not preparation - Stop worrying, it doesn't help. It just wastes energy you could be using to do something productive. If you've done all that you can, take a rest.
  • Be kind - In my home, this is the first and only thing on the list of house rules. Instead of focusing on things being either good or bad, I look to see if they are kind or unkind. Being bad is sometimes fun but being unkind isn't.

What are the 10 things you know for sure? Please share your lists here in the comments.

By Melissa Kennedy- Melissa is a 9 year blog veteran and a freelance writer for PhillyJobsBlog and Beyond.com, along with helping others find the job of their dreams, she enjoys computer geekery, raising a teenager, supporting her local library, writing about herself in the third person and working on her next novel.

Monday, October 10, 2011

Steve Jobs on Failure, Success and Passion


"You can't connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something -- your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. This approach has never let me down, and it has made all the difference in my life."

The world is mourning the death of Steve Jobs, and I think that it is important for us all to remember one of the great innovators of our time. He was crazy enough to think that he was able to change the world, and he set out to do just that.

I was so impressed by a commencement address he made in 2005 at Stanford University. If you haven't had the opportunity to watch it, you should. In his speech, he had some wonderful advice to new graduates and job seekers. He talked openly about his personal failures. He very candidly talked about what it felt like to achieve success and how devastating it was to be a complete failure.

He talked about how he got fired from Apple, lost almost everything and seriously considered leaving Silicon Valley entirely. Although it was a devastating blow to him, both personally and professionally, from that failure he was able to achieve something even better than he had ever imagined.

From the ashes of that failure, he was able to rebuild and explore new opportunities. Even though he eventually found his way back to Apple, he had found his passion all over again. I was touched by his viewpoint that it is the small moments in life that shape our destiny, even if we can't see it at the time.

Steve explained that it was these moments, these dots, that are the real things that matter. The problem is that you can't connect the dots going forward, but rather you can only connect them backwards. Even when it feels like we have lost everything, have failed miserably, we have to trust that it will all make sense at some future point. We just have to keep going.

In his commencement address, he talked about how we are all going to die, and that by accepting this and knowing how short our lives are, we should never settle for doing something we aren't passionate about. We are only in this world for a short time and we don't have time to waste living someone else's life.

These are great words, and for anyone who is struggling through job loss and trying to find their passion, it's great advice.

Here is one of my favorite quotes:
"Remembering that I'll be dead soon is the most important tool I've ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life. Because almost everything -- all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure - these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important. Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart. ... Stay hungry. Stay foolish."

I can only hope that we all stay hungry and stay foolish.

By Melissa Kennedy- Melissa is a 9 year blog veteran and a freelance writer for PhillyJobsBlog and Beyond.com, along with helping others find the job of their dreams, she enjoys computer geekery, raising a teenager, supporting her local library, writing about herself in the third person and working on her next novel.

Thursday, May 26, 2011

In The Hot Seat - Trade

Networking is important when you're looking for a job. Don't make this mistake when you're In The Hot Seat.




By Heather Fairchild - Heather is a multimedia developer with experience in web, film, photography and animation as well as traditional fine arts like painting and sculpting. In addition to writing for PhillyJobsBlog.com, she is co-founder of design and promotion company, BlackChip Solutions with fellow Beyond.com blogger, Staci Dennis. Heather’s spare time consists of making puppets, teaching Sunday School, building Legos and doing science experiments with her children.

Thursday, May 12, 2011

On downsizing your expectations

So you have executed your job search flawlessly. You have kept up with your network, you have stayed active in your field through other means, you have gone on informational interviews, you have assiduously checked out the listings on PhillyJobs.com and other boards that carry jobs of interest to you, you have sent out hundreds of resumes in the course of applying for such jobs.

And you still don't have a steady job in your field after all this time.

First off, remember, it isn't you. While conditions have improved somewhat, the job market remains highly competitive at just about every level. Employers' inboxes continue to be flooded with scores of resumes for every available opening, and many truly worthy people will get passed over in the screening process.

But there are some other matters that you will have to deal with, if you haven't already. One of them is basic: How will you continue to live after you've run through all your money?

If you were prudent and followed the advice of financial experts, that day may not yet have arrived. If you had six months' worth of income saved, as they advise, you might be living off that right now even if you have become a 99er two years ago. Still, the handwriting is on the wall even now. And if you didn't save - or worse, if someone Madoff with your savings - you may have already come to that day of reckoning.

Which means that you will likely have to adjust your life to fit your circumstances.

For some, that means taking jobs well below their professional level. You may have seen stories in the media about six-figure managers ringing up purchases at Wawa, or stories like that.

For younger workers, it may mean going back to the nest. As Gertrude Stein once wrote, "Home is the place where, when you have to go there, they have to take you in." The parents may be less than thrilled by this development, but chances are they will understand and lend a hand - unless they are also out of work too.

Those in the creative professions may be able to cobble together a living doing freelance work. In fields such as finance and management, this goes by the term "consulting." But it may take a while to build a client base that can make up for the lost income. What then?

In many cases, the answer is, downsize your living expenses. Most of us have some areas where we can economize if we think about it, whether it be dining out, entertainment events, where we shop for food, or even where we live. It may be painful, but a good, hard look at your lifestyle and spending will probably reveal areas where you can cut back, or tradeoffs you may have to make. For instance, to keep that spacious apartment in town, you may want to ask your landlord for a break on the rent or permission to take in a roommate if there is space for it.

As for me, I'm moving to a cheaper part of town. What, if anything, have you had to do to adjust to changed fortune? Share your experiences in the comments. And don't give up on the search for the job you really want.

By Sandy Smith

Sandy Smith is a veteran freelance writer, editor and public relations professional who lives in Philadelphia. Besides blogging for PhillyJobs.com, he has written for numerous publications and websites, would be happy to do your resume, and is himself actively seeking career opportunities on Beyond.com. Check out his LinkedIn profile and read his other posts on PhillyJobsBlog.com.

Tuesday, April 26, 2011

In The Hot Seat: EZ

Be careful not to sabotage your stamina when you’re In The Hot Seat. Rejuvenate your job search at PhillyJobs.com.


Get a good night sleep before your interview. That should be easy.
Get a good night sleep during your interview. Zzzzzzzzzzzzz.



By Heather Fairchild - Heather is a multimedia developer with experience in web, film, photography and animation as well as traditional fine arts like painting and sculpting. In addition to writing for PhillyJobsBlog.com, she is co-founder of design and promotion company, BlackChip Solutions with fellow Beyond.com blogger, Staci Dennis. Heather’s spare time consists of making puppets, teaching Sunday School, building Legos and doing science experiments with her children.

Friday, April 22, 2011

In The Hot Seat: Rock

Looking for a job in Philly? Explain where you’re coming from when you’re In The Hot Seat.

Tell them you are awesome. I rock. Tell them you are gruesome. I crawled out from under a rock.

Are you looking for a job in the Philadelphia area? Be sure to visit PhillyJobs.



By Heather Fairchild - Heather is a multimedia developer with experience in web, film, photography and animation as well as traditional fine arts like painting and sculpting. In addition to writing for PhillyJobsBlog.com, she is co-founder of design and promotion company, BlackChip Solutions with fellow Beyond.com blogger, Staci Dennis. Heather’s spare time consists of making puppets, teaching Sunday School, building Legos and doing science experiments with her children.

Friday, April 1, 2011

In The Hot Seat: Jones

Pick up your job search with straight laced advice for when you’re In The Hot Seat.


Are you looking for a job in the Philadelphia area? Be sure to visit PhillyJobs.


By Heather Fairchild - Heather is a multimedia developer with experience in web, film, photography and animation as well as traditional fine arts like painting and sculpting. In addition to writing for PhillyJobsBlog.com, she is co-founder of design and promotion company, Creative Kazoo with fellow Beyond.com blogger, Staci Dennis. Heather’s spare time consists of making puppets, teaching Sunday School, building Legos and doing science experiments with her children.

Friday, March 11, 2011

In The Hot Seat: Sharp

Get the edge looking for job in Philadelphia but don’t make an overly enthusiastic error when you’re In The Hot Seat.



Are you looking for a job in the Philadelphia area? Be sure to visit PhillyJobs.


By Heather Fairchild - Heather is a multimedia developer with experience in web, film, photography and animation as well as traditional fine arts like painting and sculpting. In addition to writing for PhillyJobsBlog.com, she is co-founder of design and promotion company, Creative Kazoo with fellow Beyond.com blogger, Staci Dennis. Heather’s spare time consists of making puppets, teaching Sunday School, building Legos and doing science experiments with her children.

Friday, February 25, 2011

In The Hot Seat: Drive

The key to finding the right job in Philly is acing the interview. Don’t make this mistake when you’re In The Hot Seat.



Are you looking for a job in the Philadelphia area? Be sure to visit PhillyJobs.



By Heather Fairchild - Heather is a multimedia developer with experience in web, film, photography and animation as well as traditional fine arts like painting and sculpting. In addition to writing for PhillyJobsBlog.com, she is co-founder of design and promotion company, Creative Kazoo with fellow Beyond.com blogger, Staci Dennis. Heather’s spare time consists of making puppets, teaching Sunday School, building Legos and doing science experiments with her children.

Friday, January 28, 2011

In The Hot seat - Punches

Breaking into the Philadelphia job market can be tough, but don’t make this mistake when you’re In The Hot Seat.
Are you looking for a job in the Philadelphia area? Be sure to visit PhillyJobs.

By Heather Fairchild - Heather is a multimedia developer with experience in web, film, photography and animation as well as traditional fine arts like painting and sculpting. In addition to writing for PhillyJobs she is co-founder of design and promotion company, Creative Kazoo with fellow Beyond.com blogger, Staci Dennis. Heather’s spare time consists of making puppets, teaching Sunday School, building Legos and doing science experiments with her children.

Tuesday, January 18, 2011

Job Search 101 - Create an Attack Plan

Looking for a job can be overwhelming. Sometimes, it seems like it is just too hard, there is too much to do and when you aren't getting responses as quickly as you like, it is easy to lose hope and start to become frustrated.

They say that to make a task easier, you have to break it down into small steps. So, let's keep breaking down the job search steps, to make sure that you have all of your bases covered:

  • Create an attack plan – You wouldn't just pick stocks or investments at random, so don't trust your job search to random luck and good timing. Do some research about your industry and find out where the growth is. Take a hard look at the number of jobs available in your field and see where your next step is. Maybe you need to get a certificate or some additional training to open up new avenues?

    Sit down and ask yourself some of these hard questions: What jobs are available that fit your skills and training? What companies are the leaders in this field in your area? How would you find out about any of their job openings? Are you willing to re-locate for a job? Would you be willing to take a position that was a step down from your previous one? Can you accept a lower salary? Is there any additional training that can be had that would increase your job opportunities? Answering these questions will help give you a more defined idea of what position you should be looking for.

    Next, you need to take a look at your financial situation. How much available credit do you have? What would you have to do to get more? What are your assets? What is your monthly budget, and how much can you cut out of it? How much money do you need to cover your basic expenses for a month? How long can you afford to be out of work? These question will let you know how much you are going to have to compromise in order to find the right job. It may mean that you will need to look for a part time job in order to continue your job search. Or maybe, you might have to think more seriously about taking a lesser paying job. But, by asking the question and finding the answers ahead of time, you can get a clear picture and not let fear push you into making bad decisions.

    Once you have a clear idea of where you want to go next in your career and how long you have to get there, you should start thinking about your networking strategy. Are there any professional organizations you could join to meet people in the industry? Who do you know that works for a company you want to work for? Could you ask them for a warm introduction? Do you know others in your area or field who are also out of work? Would they be interested in sharing job leads with you? Think about where and how you can get out and network with other professionals. Networking is one of the best ways to find out about new jobs and just to stay current on what is going on with your industry.



Keep an eye out for the next installment of Job Search 101.

Are you looking for a job in the Philadelphia area? Be sure to visit PhillyJobs.com

By Melissa Kennedy- Melissa is a 9 year blog veteran and a freelance writer, along with helping others find the job of their dreams, she enjoys computer geekery, raising a teenager, supporting her local library, writing about herself in the third person and working on her next novel.

Monday, January 17, 2011

Job Search 101 - Tune Up Your Resume

There's no doubt about it, looking for a job is stressful. In fact, many people can quickly find themselves overwhelmed by the process and as a result, they put off doing the things that they know they should be doing in order to find a new position. For many people, feeling like a task is too complicated mixed with a simple fear of failure, causes them to procrastinate and not be as effective as they could be.

The easiest way to overcome those feelings is to break down the large task and turn it into a series of small steps. The steps themselves are much easier to accomplish and it is always easier to convince yourself to “just do it”, when the job doesn't feel so big.

To make things a little easier, let's break it down into small steps, so that you can cover your bases:

  • Tune-up your resume – It might take a little time, but do what you can to make it clear, concise and easy to understand. If you think that you need a little bit of help in making your resume the best it can be, consider using a resume writing service, like the one offered at Beyond.com. Or, if you are more of a do-it-yourself sort of person, read some of our past blogs filled with resume tips.

    Make your resume the best document you possibly can. This may mean writing and editing it, then putting it away for a day or two, then coming back to it with fresh eyes. This document is going to be your first impression and you best shot at getting an interview. Once you have your resume fine-tuned and you are happy with the information it contains, you aren't quite done yet. Using your resume as a guide, you need to create an internet friendly copy to be posted online to job boards and your Linkedin profile.

    The main things you want to change in order to make your resume ready for the internet is to remove your personal information. Your full physical address, your phone number and even the contact information of your previous employers should be removed. If you have been in the workforce for a long time, you will probably want to trim down your previous work experience to just the past 3 or 4 most relevant jobs.Think of your online resume as an advertisement.

    When companies search through the posted resumes, they are looking for qualified candidates to find out more about. Typically, an interested company will look at your posted resume, and if they are interested, they will ask you for a copy of your actual resume. Even though you want to be accessible to companies who are searching for new applicants, you don't want to have your personal information out there where it is easy for people with bad intentions to get to it.

    Keep an eye out for the next installment of Job Search 101.

    Are you looking for a job in the Philadelphia area? Be sure to visit PhillyJobs.com

    By Melissa Kennedy- Melissa is a 9 year blog veteran and a freelance writer, along with helping others find the job of their dreams, she enjoys computer geekery, raising a teenager, supporting her local library, writing about herself in the third person and working on her next novel.

Monday, January 3, 2011

In the Hot Seat - Nick

In the Hot Seat is an illustrated depiction of the good and bad ideas of job seekers in interviews.





For more information on health careers, visit http://www.healthcarejobsite.com/

By Heather Fairchild - Heather is a writer and blogger for Beyond.com. She researches and writes about job search tactics, training, and topics.

Friday, December 31, 2010

New Year Greeting!

Happy New Year from Philly Jobs, Beyond, and In the Hot Seat!






Always bear in mind that your own resolution to succeed is more important than any one thing.

~Abraham Lincoln



Are you looking for a job in the Philadelphia area? Be sure to visit PhillyJobs.

By Heather Fairchild - Heather is a writer and blogger for Beyond.com. She researches and writes about job search tactics, training, and topics.

Monday, December 27, 2010

New Year Greeting!

Happy New Year from Health Care Jobsite, Beyond, and In the Hot Seat!






Always bear in mind that your own resolution to succeed is more important than any one thing.

~Abraham Lincoln



Are you looking for a job in Healthcare? Be sure to visit HealthcareJobsite.

By Heather Fairchild - Heather is a writer and blogger for Beyond.com. She researches and writes about job search tactics, training, and topics.

Friday, December 24, 2010

In the Hot Seat: Mustard

In the Hot Seat is an illustrated depiction of the good and bad ideas of job seekers in interviews.






Are you looking for a job in the Philadelphia area? Check out PhillyJobs.

By Heather Fairchild - Heather is a writer and blogger for Beyond.com. She researches and writes about job search tactics, training, and topics.